3 Very Useful Tips For Watching Porn More Responsibly

Brothels are incredibly popular today and we’re living in an age when porn is everywhere. It doesn’t take you more than two minutes to find any kind of porn online. You can access it anywhere at any time and people do take advantage of that. They watch it at the office, in public places, even during political conventions. Some states in America have called this obsession with porn a national health crisis. They might not be far from the truth.

While it’s still not completely clear what watching so much porn actually does to us. It does have some obvious effects on personality. It definitely affects how we view sex and it influences how we view women in general. If you have a habit of watching porn than it will show in the way you treat women. At least in how you have sex with them. Girls in the brothel can easily pick up on it too because plenty of guys try to act out what they have seen in a video. It has even been proven that it has a powerful and non-beneficial effect on our brains dopamine levels as well. We can’t ignore the effects it has on our behavior.

So the question arises. Is there a right or a wrong way to watch porn? Or is there even an amount that’s “safe to consume”. There has been a book published on the topic, called Ethical Porn for Dicks: A Man’s Guide To Responsible Viewing Pleasure. We’ll touch a bit on all the wisdom it shares.

Quick Info: VICE did an awesome interview with the book’s author David J. Ley. It’s definitely worth checking out: https://www.vice.com/en_us/article/nznqd7/how-to-watch-porn-without-being-a-dick

What is Porn Really?

Porn is actually a sexual fantasy made visual and external. It’s a way of making fantasies come to life on people’s screens. So any fears and concerns people have about porn are actually based on sexual fantasies. We tend to think of certain fantasies and desires as unhealthy and abnormal, so we keep them a secret. Otherwise, we risk stigmatization and negative judgment if they ever come to the surface. The best way for people to work around these problems is through education. Only then will people’s panic over porn and wild sexual fantasies stop.

Watching Porn Responsibly?

The book gives a fresh take on porn for those guys who want to have a better angle. It describes everything in a very comprehensive manner. To put it short, watching porn responsibly is a way of doing it mindfully and with a level of sexual integrity. It’s a way of watching porn in a much more aware manner and avoiding watching it compulsively.

The book also talks about ethical porn production. Which is based on porn actors and actresses making films for a fair wage? A type of porn which doesn’t exploit people in any way. It should also treat sexuality in a much healthier way, by recognizing different body types and sexual preferences. In short, a good, ethical porn video should seem more natural and support our ethical sexual values.

It’s easy to find plenty of homemade videos of ex-girlfriends that were posted without the girl’s consent. A lot of other videos support a completely unnatural, plastic body image. So I really get where all of this is coming from.

Also, almost every one of us had a time period when they watched too much porn. We got addicted to it one way or another, which it isn’t something to be ashamed of. But the habit doesn’t speak for a healthy sex life or a healthy self-esteem. Most of the guys I have asked (including myself) have reported a feeling of loneliness after they get off from porn. In that case, there’s a serious moderation to be made to our porn viewing habits.

Some Useful Advice

The book provides plenty of great and funny advice for guys, regarding porn and online dating habits. They are actually pretty practical. Thake these for example:

  • Never watch porn at work.
  • Don’t stalk women or porn stars on social media.
  • Never send dick pictures to women you don’t know.

The book also answers complex questions like, whether frequently watching porn when you’re in a relationship is considered cheating or not. How you should approach your partner if you want him or her to watch porn with you and how you should be more open about your porn viewing habits in front of your friends and your partner.

Man watching adult content on tv.

Conclusion

There are some pretty sensible ways to integrate porn into your life if you really want to watch it. But in my opinion, your best choice would be to quit it all together. If you could get as far as to quit masturbation too, you’d be reaping some awesome benefits from your body.

Quick Info: I wrote a list of things on what you will gain from quitting masturbation for a while, you should check it out here: http://sexbarvienna.com/articles/will-gain-quitting-porn-masturbation-habits/

Having sex in a brothel is also better in every way, so why not spend your time doing that instead? I hope you enjoyed reading through this article and that we have helped you learn something new!

 

 

 

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