The Problems in Watching Porn Before You Go To a Brothel

Porn encourages a distorted and objectifying view of women. If a girl at the brothel picks up on you treating her like an object, it will dull the experience.

Even since I was a kid, porn wasn’t something hard to come across. In fact, it was hard to ignore. What does teenage kid say no if he was offered to see what women and sex look like? Hell yes!  Curiosity is the first reason to see pictures in a PlayBoy magazine or to open the first porn site in our browser. We got to see what naked women and sex looks like. At least we think we did.

Most of us move on from there. We go to high scool, lose our virginity and try our hardest to get laid as often as possible. Ladies come and go, we get dissapointed a couple of times and learn to differentiate real love from just fooling around. While this is the way things should go, some of us spice things up with watching porn. Some guys watch it for a single wank, while others go far enough to manifest porn addiction. Porn involontarely affects the way they see women and the way they interact with them. Going to a brothel every once in a while to be with a woman is completely fine. But constantly wanking on virtual ladies and craving for something thats not real, isn’t.

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We already talked about the numerous mental and phsical health issues watching porn can cause. Quitting it can be nothing but good for you. Going to a brothel to see a real woman, while some of your last watched porn flicks still play in your head will definitely taint the experience. I’m here to tell you why.

Why Porn Only Ruins You

Let’s get one thing straight. You watching porn will definitely not make you treat the ladies better at a brothel. Not to mention how it changes the way you behave during sex within an actual relationship. Porn is something that isn’t real. There’s no super hot chick waiting for a delivery guy and the neighbur girl doesn’t have a cock addiction. Even though these things are obvious in the scenes, they affect us on a subconscious level. These scenes dictate one thing and that is to treat women less like human and more like objects.

Even if you don’t care much about the person or prostitute you’re having sex with it still has a major impact. Because porn is littered with extreme scenes. The more extreme action you watch the more you will crave for. The more you crave for these, the less actual sex will satisfy you. This is because when you see some more skin on a lady as usual, your brin rewards you. Dopamines rush all over your body, giving you a nice tingling feeling. You exploit this by watching porn, so much that you might even become immune to some impulses. With the more porn you watch, the less satisfying and actual human to human experience will become.

Ms Michailovic, an Australian protester against porn has done many surveys. She asked men what they felt after jerking off to porn. The answers weren’t too surprising. Most of them said it was a feeling of lonelness, low self esteem and other negative emotions. The only positive answers were the ones that said they wanted to try more tricks in bed. Yet, wanking off to porn usually leaves you sad and wanting to go to sleep.

What You Can Do About It

The state of Utah has declared porn as a ‘Public Health Crisis’, mainly because it causes addiction. It messes with your brain’s dopamine and serotonin supply like a drug. Which is why it causes withdrawal symptoms for many. So, the best thing you can do about it is just avoid it. If you can’t handle your stiffy, wank on it or go to a brothel. I doubt spending more time in a brothel, surrounded by actual ladies would be worse than watching virtual ones. Your wallet has to be able to handle it though. But believe me, you’ll enjoy sex much better and you’ll be way more confident in real life. Not to mention that you’ll also have additional testosterone to work with.

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So, do yourself and all the ladies in every brothel around the world and stop watching porn. If you think you’re too addicted, there are plenty of online resources to help you.

Conclusion

Treating women like objects and sex toys won’t land you in good places. It will make your experience a lot less lively and will humiliate the girl as well. Treating ladies properly starts in your head and it’s way harder if you let porn mess it up. Quitting it will take a lot of will power but its a noble cause. The ladies at the brothel can help such a noble cause and will be glad to do so.

 

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