What it’s Like To Be a Fan Of BDSM Action

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Description of BDSM

The term BDSM it is believed to have been formed by joining the abbreviation of B&D (bondage and domination) with S&M (sadomasochism or sadism and masochism). It is a diversity of erotic practices that involves dominance and submission, role-playing, restraint and may even include cross-dressing, extreme body-modification, animal role-playing or latex fetishism.

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Characteristics of BDSM

BDSM has various subcultures with different terminologies. Dominant is generally recognized as the physically active and controlling part of the relationship, while submissive being the physically receptive and controlled part. The power exchange occurs when physical or mental control of the submissive is being surrendered to the dominant.

BDSM actions can often take place during “plays”, “scenes” or “sessions”, a time agreed upon by both parties. Even though many of the practices involves inflicting pain, humiliation or being restrained, the participants usually obtain pleasure from this, without the need for sexual penetration.

During these sessions, if a partner wishes to withdraw his consent for the activity, he/she can use the so-called “safe-word” agreed upon in advance.

Misunderstandings regarding BDSM comes from lack of knowledge about sexuality or sexual practices from all over the world, as well as misconceptions on how one’s sexual preferences can affect their everyday life. For example, if one enjoys being on the submissive side of the relationship that doesn’t mean that they desire to experience pain or degradation outside their relationship.

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BDSM Parties and Clubs

BDSM parties are events in which people who practice BDSM or are interested in it can meet each other in order to share their experiences and knowledge. A dress code is usually required to attend these parties, most often latex or leather clothing, and a minimum age of 18.

In some cities specialized BDSM clubs or brothels can be found such as Vienna, Amsterdam and so on. There you can find brothel-girls which can fulfill your fantasies of being dominated or being on the dominant side.

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