Keeping your skills sharp in picking up girls is important. They can get dull if you only hang out with girls in a brothel. You don’t need to be a brain surgeon or Leonardo Dicaprio to pick up girls at parties. It only requires you to put your groom game on, step out of your comfort zone and engage. Believe it or not, a lot of girls are waiting for guys to talk to them. The same way that you are waiting to meet new girls and possibly get laid. You just have to find the right match for yourself. House parties are one of the best places to meet new girls and to make some serious moves. Most of the time, people know each other at house parties. It’s much more intimate than the club, which is why girls are more likely to talk to you. It is also the most socially acceptable place when you to just walk up to a girl. It will be your mission to do so. To make it happen, you’ll have to learn the things you didn’t know you knew. So, without further ado, let’s get down to it!
Engage With People
There is no greater turnoff for a girl than seeing a guy who just stands in the corner texting or staring at his phone. A lot of guys are likely to do so because of the anxiety they feel before meeting new girls. However, keep in mind that you’re there to party and have fun first and foremost. Picking up girls comes second behind having a good time. Because if you’re not having a good time hat you’re not really likely to pick up girls. Just let go, have fun and talk to the people there. There is nothing more attractive than a guy who feels genuinely good about himself. Make friends with the guys who threw the parties too, so you’ll get future invites-
This goes without saying, but you’ll be surprised how many guys don’t give a flying f… about how they dress. They say things like „she has to love me for my personality” or are just plain too lazy. You can’t really expect a girl to want to hang out with you if you’re not looking fresh. Why should she? That’s the minimum you could put forward. So always make sure you shave, put on a pair of jeans and a shirt. You don’t have to look like a model, just be fresh. Also, if its a themed party like Halloween or a Star Wars party, then make sure you look apart.
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Go Up To Her
If you!re at a loud ass party with banging music, your job is actually quite simple. You can walk up to a girl and dance with her even if she is with her friends. But keep one rule in mind first. Never approach her from behind with your ballsack rubbing on her. I see guys standing behind women, trying to approach a woman by grinding on her ass. It’s really creepy.
Instead, make eye contact with her from the front. If your eyes link, maintain it for as long as you can. If she quickly looks to the side and touches her hair, it’s also a telltale sign she likes you. Once you are on each other’s radar and have eye contact, walk up to her and reach out your hand. If she wants to do anything with you, she’ll take it. You can dance with her and once that happens, it’s only a matter of time before you two kiss and seal the deal.
Become a Good Conversationalist
If you’re at a more relaxed party, walking up and dancing with her will make you the weirdest guy around. So, introducing yourself and talking is the best option. You can even have a friend introduce you to her. Just get involved with her circle and get close to her. If she is playing beer pong than join the game and challenge her. Women just love to prove themselves.
If you find yourself in a one on one conversation, work to find common ground with her. A good strategy is the O.S.A. (Observe Share Ask). But if you’re laid back enough, you can talk about whatever you want. If you have a badass Game of Thrones episode on your mind than ask her if she watched it. Everyone watches the game of thrones. From there, the conversation can move onto other shows or anything else. Make sure that you tease her in the process and teasingly touch her. If the two of you both love hiking, then close the conversation by handing her your phone. Tell her to give you her number so you can tell her the next time you’re going on a hiking trip and she can join you. Don’t hesitate, do it like its the most obvious thing to do and she won’t resist.